Finding a Mentor Could Begin in College and Last for a Lifetime
February 5th, 2010 by Bill MeansWe are all products of our past experiences, and our relationships with others can greatly influence us. I appreciate all of those who have given me good career advice over the years - solicited or not - and helped me develop as a professional. Therefore, while working with college students, I highly recommend that they seek a mentor. Although any genuine relationship requires each party to help the other, a mentor is a good contact to have for several reasons. The mentor can help the student identify a suitable career goal; create and implement a transition plan from college to work; set realistic, attainable career goals; network effectively and efficiently; overcome obstacles; and step outside of the box to grow and develop. Generally, the relationship can be an invaluable resource. Here are my suggestions for locating and developing a mentoring relationship.
1.) Consider Your Career Interests. Seek someone who has had career success in an area of your choice. As career success is a relative term, think about where you would like to be in a career and locate a person either there or on the way.
2.) Find Someone With Whom You Can Relate. Of course, mentors do not have to be of the same gender, age or race as you, but there is nothing wrong with it if they are. Often, people connect with others who have similar interests, either religious, extracurricular, college major, from the same hometown or state, etc.
3.) Contact Your College Alumni Office. If you are a college student or graduate, alumni are a great group of people to contact. First, you have an immediate connection with them because of your college. Alumni are always interested in showing off their success to younger students or counterparts, particularly if they are successful. But that is OK. It is a win-win for you and the alumni because you get access to information and resources by making the connection. Oftentimes, if you are looking to relocate to another state, you may find alumni in that area willing to help you find work.
4.) Nurture the Relationship. Periodically spend time with the mentor — have coffee, attend professional events, email them, send birthday cards, have telephone conversations, etc. Seek advice on your resume and get feedback on your professional development, short/long term goals, and strategies. Also, look for ways to assist them and build a genuine relationship. It is not always about asking for help.
5.) Maintain Through Your Professional Career. At the start of your career search, mentors can help you gain entry into an organization for that first job or internship. As you develop more experience or plateau, the mentor might offer ways to advance in your career. Competition is greater as you seek to move up the ladder, but mentors can help you strategize, coach you or connect you with the right people.
Good luck as you develop, grow and advance professionally. And please remember that, to be successful, you must incorporate a variety of tools to assist with your career development.

